There’s been a growing interest on the internet under young women in the divine feminine and especially dark feminine energy. Many trendy TikTok accounts are claiming that by acting, dressing and even speaking a specific way, that you can become the ultimate siren and femme fatale. Let’s see if this trend is worth the while! So, here is a deep dive into dark femininity.
What is dark feminine energy?
Although there is not an official dictionary definition of dark feminine energy, most of the internet users seem to have the same impression of what it represents and which traits women that have stepped into this energy have. Simply put, dark feminine energy is one side of the divine femininity. It’s the side that is powerful, fearless and seductive.
Women that have tapped into this particular energy are the ultimate femme fatale. Adjectives that are usually associated with these types of women are: dominant, assertive, fiery, passionate and magnetic. These women know who they are, what they want and how to achieve their desires. Women with strong dark feminine energy are often thought of as sirens; they seem to be alluring and mysterious.
Characteristics of the dark feminine
According to the internet women that have stepped into their side of femininity share some of the same traits. They are mysterious and won’t open up easily. Meaning that they have a small circle of friends whom they trust completely. It takes some time for women that have activated this energy to open up, but when someone has earned their trust they don’t hesitate to do so. Some other characteristics of these women are that they are perfectly comfortable on their own and that they enjoy their own company. This brings along another core value most women that have tapped into this energy have: they detach easily. It’s often said that women who lean more towards their dark feminine side know their self-worth. Setting boundaries comes easily to them. These women know that they are the main character of their life. Taking care of the body and soul is important to them because they know that no one will ever take as good care of them as they would themselves. Ultimately, these women have become absolute warrior-queens when it comes to protecting their own energy and peace.
Tips on activating dark feminine energy
The internet seems to be somewhat disagreeing when it comes to tips on activating this part of the divine feminine. Some accounts and websites claim that women that have the desire to be in their dark feminine energy should meditate and meet other women that have tapped into this side of the divine. However, it feels more natural to work on overall self-improvement. So for example: if you have experienced people breaking your trust in the past and want to work on not being so open and trusting. The perfect way to do that seems to be to tap into those core values of dark feminine energy. You could try to weigh people you meet and those you have around you before trusting them completely and telling them more intimate details about yourself. Dark feminine energy is more of a way to tap into that side of you that already exists, more than changing yourself completely.